Sticky Roommate Situation

I'm not sure if it's just me or what, but, living with roommates can be a challenge. In my situation we share a house rental together. What a wonderful opportunity! And, yet, what a tragedy too. It seems we don't "connect" well together. We all lead our own, separate lives. Too bad. Because, I believe people are designed to live in community. So, I'll do my best to live in harmony with these girls, but I feel so sad sometimes. Hello, I'm here. Don't ignore me please. Like, do I really have to always be the one to greet you first? And, if I don't talk with you first , would you even talk with me? We seem to share the bills together, but that's about it. I'm sure life was meant to be more than this! I'm certain of it!